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Hello, I want to tell my story, I admit that my experience and small experiments will be interesting to someone. My name is Dasha, quite pretty, I easily make new acquaintances, have a certain amount of experience and a strong interest in adventures with men. Please treat all the recommendations below as little feminine tricks. You may even consider them nonsense and not waste your attention on them. And I ask everyone who believes that spiritual and moral norms and values are being violated here not to bother reading it at all. I understand that the dissatisfied will unleash a barrage of criticism, condemning me for commercialism. This is their right, but first I want to “parry” to them whether their actions are always so pure. It's no secret that men also do not always act honestly and nobly towards women. Everyone knows that men do not part with their money voluntarily, and how to cheat a man out of money is a problem that has always plagued me.
I was prompted to write this by the thought that if I had difficulties (to deceive a man for money), it means that the same difficulties may arise in relationships with guys and other girls. I don’t encourage unfortunate girls, deprived of male attention, to strictly follow my advice, but occasionally allowing yourself little tricks to lift your spirits won’t hurt.
Personally, I always had difficulties with how to beg money, first from my parents, then from my older brother, and subsequently from men. And the point is not that I experienced an acute lack of money, I wanted to assert myself in this way, but it turned out the opposite, for some reason I felt humiliated at that moment when I begged for money. My upbringing was in a strict family and compliments were far from being sent to the opposite sex. They taught me about modesty, pride and the need to earn money for my own needs. But asking men for money was considered indecent, even if it was a regular mobile top-up.
I listened with pleasure to the stories of my friends, how their gentlemen gave gifts and easily parted with banknotes. I consider this to be the norm when a guy, as a sign of sympathy, love, on holidays and just like that, is ready to part with a certain amount of money. What's wrong with that? The amount of love is measured by the amount of spending on your beloved half. Which girl wouldn’t be pleased to receive a ring on her finger with a treasured stone as a bonus in addition to the flower? Such an act, in my opinion, will indicate the depth of feelings. Of course, it’s also nice to hear beautiful words from your gentleman, but in order to win a girl’s heart and keep a girl near you, there are never too many gifts. And giving gifts to a girl strictly on holidays is banal, although this is also necessary, since the exchange of impressions between friends about gifts, for example, on Valentine's Day, always happens. And I want to feel loved when talking about my gifts, and not silently sulk at my prince in the depths of my soul, considering him a miser.
I also had a boyfriend who thought that gifts were not the main thing. A real cheapskate: flowers from a country flower bed, ice cream with jam at home in the kitchen under a lampshade, pizza at home - that’s what a romantic is all about. Girls, run away from such guys right away, it will only get worse - this type of man will not part with his money, even if he has income. As a result, he will start giving you flowers in pots, buy an ice cream maker for your home, and ask you to cook pizza for you personally, explaining that the expense is not worth it. In principle, at some point it will even seem that he is right, but the feeling of discomfort from such a relationship will remain.
I had to come down to earth, stop expecting surprises from this miserly man and be content with little, if not nothing, because, no matter how hard I tried to explain with tricks or directly, that it is important for me to feel loved and gifts are the fastest way to make me happy - Nothing worked out for me. It’s uncomfortable to be in such a relationship; it didn’t suit me. I don’t really want to remember them. Men have this peculiarity: the less they invest in their loved ones, the less they value them. This was very noticeable in my relationship with my miser Roma. He wasn’t even very worried about our separation. He probably calculated his expenses for me and quickly recovered psychologically; the joy that his condition was preserved warmed his soul.
For a long time I could not understand why I had a persistent desire to cheat men out of money. Over time, I came to the final conclusion that money and gifts give me positive emotions that I cannot make up for in any other way from the outside world. Yes, I love shopping, visiting salons, and comfortable travel. I treat this as a need. If a man gives me the opportunity to fulfill my desires, I love him even more.
I can afford personal waste within reason, but it doesn’t bring me the desired emotions that I experience when I scam my boyfriends out of money. This excitement gives me a release of dopamine, which makes me high.
Some will argue that communication and understanding in a relationship are much more important than the thickness of a wallet. For me, everything is important in a complex way, because the essence of women is the desire to spend money and receive tremendous pleasure from it. Just first you need to cheat the man for the coveted amount. And when you succeed, you will experience incredible satisfaction from the fact that you pulled it off. Then the realization will come: that this is not difficult at all. At first there is a certain psychological barrier that prevents you from deciding on certain actions and words, but every time a money scam is carried out easier - as a matter of course. Initially, I was embarrassed to ask men for money, but any skill can be trained, including this one.
It is important to approach the process of money divorce creatively. At first, I made a big mistake when I complained about my financial situation, whined and begged. Then she changed tactics, realizing that this was not true. It’s not that they refused me and didn’t give me money - they did, but a much smaller amount than would suit me. I learned the following: when asking for money, you should maintain your self-esteem. After all, winning a girl who demonstrates her independence is much more difficult and interesting. In such a situation, a man is ready to part with his money more easily. And constantly talking sadly about a difficult financial situation can only evoke pity in a man and a lack of desire to continue building a love relationship with you. Help him - he will help, but constantly listening to whining will stress him out. A man wants to see a woman always cheerful, he is charged with positive energy from her.
You need to ask for money gently, femininely, as if you are giving a man the right to take care of you. This should be done with a certain frequency, so you will morally teach your loved one, for example, once a week, plus or minus a couple of days, to part with a certain amount. The moment you ask, forget about the principles of morality and education. This will act as a hindrance and the fear of rejection will be visible on your face.
I noticed that my self-sufficient man likes to give money. He was flattered when I asked him for them. I think he likes to feel that I depend on him, thereby showing that I recognize his importance. You just need to ask gently, politely, correctly, for example: “Will you buy me a chain? Then I will be the most beautiful for you.” If you want boots, I honestly admit that I haven’t had them before and that’s why I really want them! It is important to thank for gifts sincerely and joyfully. You can jump up to the ceiling, kiss a man, give compliments. By putting on a chain, you can show off everything that your loved one bought.
Starting a conversation about money when a man is in a bad mood, unwell, hungry, or immersed in problems is a losing option. In this state he may refuse.
Many men believe that we women are with them only for money, so you must initially convince your loved one that your feelings are sincere. And immediately asking for money will look arrogant. Initially, let the man take the initiative himself - maybe he himself will want to show his generosity. It is necessary to spend money carefully so that the young man thinks that this is his initiative. You shouldn’t always accept material support; you can create the appearance that you don’t need it, then the man himself will ask you to accept a gift from him.
As soon as you notice that a man is in love, then you need to start acting. You can try this technique: when a man is busy with something, tell him about the need to make an urgent purchase, for example, shoes. In this situation, in order to be left alone, he will count out the required amount. In the future, when you work up an appetite, the main thing is not to overdo it with the amount and not to demand too much, but only casually voice your desires, but not more than once every ten days. My advice is only suitable for adequate, non-greedy men who understand women and their needs. I wish all the girls good luck! Don't be afraid to ask, if a man is in love, he won't be able to refuse. Take advantage of this!
Often people do not become lovers on purpose. An impulse of feelings, a certain spark that suddenly jumps between two people - and loyalty to the other half, joint children and years lived together fade into the background. But sometimes, by wanting to escape from the “everyday routine” and experience new feelings, some people make good money.
When, in search of new heroes, I found 28-year-old Alexandra (all names have been changed) on the Internet and learned her story, I didn’t believe in it at first. However, as we know, real life is much more bizarre and surprising than any fictional movie plot. In addition, there was clearly no point in lying to the girl, because many of the moments told (with all the names and positions of the participants in these events) do not put her in the best light.
Why did Alexandra need to tell her story at all, I could not understand... Probably only female logic has the answer to this question...
“The ONLY THING WE HAD WAS ONE KISS... I TOLD IGOR THAT I LOVE MY HUSBAND AND WE WILL NOT HAVE ANYTHING...”
Our meeting took place in one of the courtyards not far from the editorial office. Alexandra is a tall, beautiful girl with fiery red hair and a model-like appearance and figure. Her way of earning money can be called a “professional mistress.” When I told Sasha about this, she laughed, noting that she liked the name.
“As I understand it, you scam men out of money after you become their mistress.” Are you doing this for the money or is there something else going on here?
- You know, initially I wasn’t interested in money at all. Although I won’t hide the fact that later the financial issue became more important for me,” Sasha opens a small handbag and takes out a pack of thin cigarettes. “It’s just that one day (I was only 22 years old then) I accumulated a lot of resentment towards one young man. Now I almost forgot about him. You can’t devote your whole life to revenge, right?
- Tell me more. And so far nothing is clear at all.
- I got married early - at seventeen. For my classmate. It was just great love, at least on my part...
Nikolai and Alexandra became close in their first year at the institute where they studied. They dated for a year, went to the Carpathians together in the summer, after which the guy proposed getting married. The girl agreed without thinking twice. The parents gave their children a wedding gift in the form of an apartment rented for six months and a certain amount of money for the first time.
“Our mothers and fathers are very poor people, and for them this gift was serious. And Kolya and I didn’t need more. We didn't need a luxurious wedding or travel. Living together under one roof - what else do two lovers need to be happy?
Everything was fine until a year later, Igor, who was five years older than her, appeared in Sasha’s life.
“My girlfriends and I were at a disco, and that’s where he noticed me.” Very handsome, all cool, with a car. Moreover, he said that he was not a major, but earned everything himself (I now understand where he got the money). In addition, he was courteous, offered his hand, offered a chair... In short, I melted. Still, when you live in marriage for more than a year, everyday life appears and romance disappears. And girls really need this. “I became interested in Igor,” admits Sasha.
Taking advantage of the fact that she and her husband worked part-time in different places, Alexandra found time to walk and communicate with Igor. True, according to the girl, they did not get intimate.
“It’s probably hard to believe, but I never cheated on my wife.” Igor repeatedly tried to seduce me, but the only thing we had was a kiss at his house. After that, I said that, despite the passion, I love my husband and nothing will happen between us, that I would like to continue communicating with him simply as a friend...
“I HAVE A VIDEO OF US KISSING. DO YOU WANT YOUR HUSBAND TO SEE?..”
Igor seemed to understand Sasha and even praised him for his loyalty. The failed lover called the girl a few days later and said the unexpected:
- You know, I have a video of you and me kissing. I can send it to your mobile phone. Do you want your husband to see this? No? Then give me a gift - 2000 hryvnia. Decide, I’ll give you two days...
Alexandra was shocked by such deceit. The girl understood that after seeing the recording, her husband would not forgive, and even began searching for money. However, in the evening, when Igor called again, Sasha made a mistake - being in excitement, she was unable to cope with her anger and simply sent the extortionist to hell. That same evening, Nikolay received an MMS in which Alexandra was clearly seen hugging and kissing Igor. Judging by the angle, the camera was hidden among books and magazines, which the girl did not pay attention to on that date. Mocking, the extortionist sent a message: “Look how your faithful wife is making out with someone else’s guy! Like? If only you knew what was left behind the scenes!”
Sasha tried to justify herself, but essentially she had nothing to say.
“I said that we had nothing but a kiss, but, of course, he didn’t believe it.” On the same day I went to my parents, and a couple of months later we officially divorced.
- And you began to take revenge on men in the same way?
— Not right away, and at first it was unconscious. At first, I generally lived only by trying to get Kolya back. She humiliated herself for several months, watched over him under the house, tried to explain herself, ask for forgiveness... Twice she fell on her knees in front of him, and in full view of others... But he is one of those who are too proud to forgive betrayal. Once I approached his house, I saw him walking with another girl. That's when I realized that there was no point in trying to bring back the past. For me, on that day, life seemed to end...
For the next two years, Sasha was immersed in her studies and searching for a new job. Her friends tried to drag her out to a nightclub or cafe, but she refused. Only three years later, via the Internet, the girl began to correspond with her first victim...
- His name was Alexey. Thirty years. At first we talked about everything except feelings. And then he began to hint that he wanted love, affection. Like, he doesn’t have a lot of money. In general, he made it clear that he wanted to have sex with me for a fee. To be honest, I didn't really mind. The only thing that mattered to me was his marital status. She asked: “Do you have a wife?” He replied that he had, and that he had a small daughter. That's when I thought - why not put this asshole in his place? They deserve it. “I swear,” Sasha raises her palm in front of her, imitating an oath when testifying, as in American courts. “At that moment, I didn’t even think about what I was doing like that Igor.” True, it so happened that the first victim turned out to be intractable...
Having met Alexei, Alexandra perfectly played the role of a girl greedy for money and not burdened with honor. She complained that it was very difficult without help and having the support of a wealthy man would not hurt her. The new acquaintance agreed, this time saying directly that he would be happy to provide financial assistance for sex. The man wanted to go with Sasha to her apartment that same day, but she refused.
“I didn’t have anything ready.” Therefore, I agreed with him the next day.
- How did you prepare? Have you bought mini security cameras?
- Oh, I don’t understand this at all, and such things are probably expensive! I just borrowed a regular camera with remote activation from a friend. I placed all the flowerpots from the window sill on the sideboard in front of the sofa, stuck the camera into the thick of the leaves and flowers, and that’s all the preparations.
The start of the date went well for Alexey. Sasha practically attacked him herself, dragged him onto the sofa, began kissing him passionately and taking off his clothes. But when the gentleman was already undressed, it was all over.
“Sorry, I can’t do it right away,” Sasha quickly collected the scattered clothes and quickly got dressed. “You see, I was raped as a child.” I need a little time to get used to you...
“Not only did IGOR RUIN MY LIFE, THIS LESHENKY ALSO TOLD MY LIFE. I HATED ALL MEN AT ALL!”
— Have you really had any experience of abuse? - I ask.
- No, thank God! — my interlocutor smiles. “It was just necessary to stop him.” So I came up with this excuse.
Alexey fell for it and, smiling fatherly, said:
- Understand. Here's a hundred for you... Take it, it's just like that. You calm down, drink some tea, watch TV, and I’ll come the day after tomorrow. I can’t tomorrow - it’s my daughter’s birthday. If everything goes well, next time you will get three hundred hryvnia.
However, the next date did not work out. Acting according to the same Igor’s script, Alexandra sent a video of them kissing to Alexey’s mobile phone, demanding five thousand hryvnia from him.
“I didn’t know his wife’s number, but I knew his home address and said that I would bring her the disc with the recording.
- And how did he react?
“First he called and cursed me for a long time and persistently. Then he said that I could show the recording to anyone, he didn’t care. And an hour later he called again and said that he would bring money tomorrow.
— Weren’t you afraid that the police would come instead of him?
“So I just asked for financial help.” And it is unlikely that Alexei himself would benefit from such a development of events.
The next day they met in a cafe. Pale Alexey sat down at Sasha’s table.
- I didn’t know you were such a creature! - he said.
- Give me the money!
The man reached into his purse and pulled out a stack of bills, but suddenly with the words “Fuck you!” stuck it back. Immediately after this, he leaned over the table, grabbed Alexandra by the jacket, sharply pulled her towards himself and at the same time hit her with his fist in the forehead with all his strength.
- I didn't expect this. He also pushed me, I fell out of the chair. The guys who were sitting next to us ran up to us and twisted Alexei’s hands. The police were called.
- What did you tell the police?
- I'm not stupid. I explained to the cops that we were old acquaintances, he supposedly had problems that day, so he freaked out. Alexey confirmed this. In general, after seven days, he finally gave me three thousand, promising that the rest would be delivered any day now. And then he disappeared and stopped answering calls. Well, I came to his house.
- And how did his wife react?
- But there was no wife. I kept watch at the door a couple of times, but Alexey sent her somewhere. That's where the story ended.
- Really, after such an experience, did you decide to repeat everything?
- Yes, I have become even angrier! Not only did Igor ruin my life, but Leshenka also cheated me. I actually hated all men!
A month later, Alexandra found her next victim. This time the girl was looking for a man with a more or less high status, rightly judging that such people are much more afraid of ruining their reputation as an exemplary family man.
Fifty-seven-year-old Boris held a high position in one of the branches of the judicial system. During the conversation, Alexandra named the exact position and place of work of this person, but for obvious reasons I will not disclose them.
“OUT OF 15 MEN, ONLY TWO OR THREE ARE LEADING. THE REST ARE TURNING SOMETHING OUT, BUT DON’T GIVE MONEY...”
“Such a guy who grew fat on bribes,” she says, “not only in body, but also in soul.” Everything is under his control, everyone around him tiptoes. Again, a family, an adult son, two grandchildren...
— Do you want to say that people like Boris are on dating sites?
- Of course not. I met him by chance when I came to an appointment for my business. By the way, he was the first to stick.
Three days later, after going to a restaurant and sauna together, the new couple found themselves at Alexandra’s house. Repeating the scenario from last time, the girl pulled away from the pot-bellied gentleman at the very last moment.
“He tried to persuade me for a long time. I gave a whole lecture (obviously made up along the way) about how if a girl was raped, then you shouldn’t immerse yourself in those memories, but, on the contrary, you need to have sex more often, otherwise your psyche will break down even more. Goat! I obviously forgot that I'm not fifteen. It’s just that a youngster will fall for such nonsense.
- And what was the amount this time?
- Considering that he is not a poor man and values his reputation... Fifteen thousand. By the way, that time I quietly looked through his mobile phone and wrote down his wife’s number, so there would be no problems with sending the video.
- And what is the result?
- Everything went as it should! The only thing was that the bargaining took a long time and was tedious. A real huckster! Everyone pressed for pity. Like, there’s no money now, I need to pay for fictitious treatment for my wife, and I’ve come up with something else. In total, we agreed on thirteen thousand.
— Were there any conflicts during the transfer of money?
- No. True, then he twirled the disc with the recording in his hands, which I gave him, turned his brain and asked: “How can I be sure that you didn’t make a copy and won’t demand something from me again?”
- Really, what are the guarantees?
- No guarantee. I honestly told all my handsome men about my story with my husband, explained, so to speak, my motives. And she said that since they gave me money, then I, as a woman who is guided more by emotions, am no longer angry with them. And, believe me, this is really true. Of course, they probably hedged their bets by changing their wives’ phone numbers or places of residence, but that’s none of my business.
“In general, it’s surprising that they gave you money without any guarantees against repeated blackmail.”
- But for me this is not surprising. And not all of them were carried out - out of fifteen men, only two or three. The rest are messing around with something, but they don’t give any money.
— What incident can you call the most unfortunate?
- ABOUT! - Alexandra exclaims. “There’s nothing to think about here!” I once had to flee from a foreign country wearing a wig, with rollers under my upper and lower lips for camouflage. They literally almost killed me then...
When Alexandra was twenty-five, a friend suggested that she go to Moscow to work. For the summer, one of the large restaurants opened a veranda with tables; additional staff was needed. According to Alexandra, she agreed to go not so much for the salary in the cafe, but in order to be able to find another victim in the big city.
“NOW I WILL GIVE YOU 20 THOUSAND! I WILL GIVE YOU SO MUCH THAT IF YOU ARE DIGGED UP LATER, THEY WILL NOT IDENTIFY YOU!”
— We arrived and settled in a hostel. We worked for about a week when one client, a Dagestani, began to pay attention to me,” the girl recalls. “I, of course, did everything so that all the men in the restaurant would only look at me.” Many were not suitable for me because they did not have wedding rings. And I immediately noticed the Caucasian’s ring, so I took it into development.
Aren't you confused by the fact that people of this nationality are known, so to speak, for their hot temperament?
“I thought about it later.” But initially I saw that he had serious money... And his habits are completely European. He lived in Moscow for fifteen years.
That same evening, after finishing their shift, Alexandra and 45-year-old Murad went for a ride around Moscow.
“He said that he had been married to a Russian for thirteen years and they had three children. He runs a business himself and has more than twenty points in one of the clothing markets. If you have a wife and three children, why are you, you bastard, bothering others?! - exclaims Sasha. “I decided that this was a very suitable specimen.” I carried out everything according to a well-established scheme. But from the very beginning everything went wrong...
For the date, Alexandra herself rented an apartment for a few hours, where she brought Murad. When the incriminating evidence was recorded on video and the girl, as usual, began to tell the story of rape, the new gentleman behaved differently from the others.
- Listen, don't bullshit me! I wasn't born yesterday! - said Murad. - Are you dynamic? This won't work with me!
He practically attacked Alexandra, not listening to her protests.
“Really, I almost raped her,” says the girl. “I don’t know by what miracle I managed to break free and run out into the entrance wearing what my mother gave birth to.” Only then did he calm down, let me get dressed and leave.
Anger at Murad forced Alexandra to name an amount that she had not yet asked for—twenty thousand dollars. Thus, the girl decided not only to make good money, but also to take full revenge. The first part, that is, the telephone conversation and explanation of what kind of story Murad was involved in, went as expected. The man did not swear, did not shout, but calmly said that he was ready to give the entire amount mentioned.
“Let’s meet near the market,” he said. “I’ll just collect the money there and give it all away.” But you just have to forget my number, okay?
Alexandra arrived at the appointed place at three o'clock in the afternoon. There were containers with goods around. Even though it was a crowded market, there were no people here at all at that time. A blue minibus pulled up and stopped nearby.
“I didn’t even pay attention to him.” Murad said that he would be in his “Boomer”. Two men get out of the minibus, slowly open the side door, as if they were about to unload something, grab me by the hands and push me inside. From the surprise, Alexandra didn’t even have time to get scared. Murad was inside.
- So, bitch, now I’ll give you twenty thousand! I will give you so much that if they dig you up later, they will definitely not identify you! - he shouted, after which he began to beat the girl.
— There were no seats inside, there was a lot of space and he kicked with a flourish. It’s good that I covered my face with my hands, but my whole body was covered in bruises and even one rib was cracked.
— Did all three of you beat you?
- No, only Murad. The rest didn’t participate at all, they just called me names... To be honest, I had already said goodbye to my life. They said that they would now take me somewhere in the Moscow region, rape and kill me. And they also offered a choice: rape and kill, or rape, cut up your face and breasts and let them go...
“UNTIL MEN LEARN TO BE FAITHFUL, I WILL NOT BE LEFT WITHOUT MONEY...”
After the beating, according to Alexandra, a real miracle happened, which saved her. About thirty minutes later, when she lay motionless on the floor, beaten, one of those sitting in the front seat said:
- Slow down, let's buy vodka.
- Buy some cigarettes! - exclaimed Murad.
However, the friend had already left and did not hear the request. Cursing, Murad opened the side door, following his friend out.
“I saw that I was left alone with the driver,” recalls Alexandra. “He didn’t even look at me.” I think they decided that I was so beaten and intimidated that I didn’t dare move. And I quietly crawled to the door, jumped up, opened it, fell out of the car and ran from there!
Afterwards, Alexandra heard the driver shout: “Stop!” Not realizing what area of Moscow she was in, the girl ran through some courtyards of high-rise buildings, ran across overpasses and underground passages. Realizing that she was no longer able to run, she went into some entrance and reclined on the steps for a long time, trying to catch her breath.
— I hope that after that you realized that it was time to return home to Ukraine?
- Certainly! I called my friend and asked her to bring me all my things to the metro. She did not understand anything, but complied with the request. And when she found out everything, she almost forcefully put her wig on me, put on very bright makeup in a public toilet, and put rubber earplugs under my lips to change the shape of my face at least a little.
— Were you guarded at train stations?
- Probably yes. But I was incredibly lucky again - I calmly boarded the train and got home. After that, I decided that if I tour, it will only be in Ukraine. And only with ours.
— After that incident, were there any such problems?
- Only on little things. I have become smarter, I carry a spray can with me, I meet only in crowded places. In general, I am insured.
- So what, your occupation allows you not to work?
- Well, in general, yes. Men cheat on their wives after all. And those who don't, just need to be pushed, that's all. So until men learn to be faithful, I will not be left without money.
“Haven’t you thought about finding a mate and ending it all?”
- Believe me, during this time I was so disappointed in the opposite sex that it’s disgusting to even imagine that I could be with any of them. All men, in my opinion, are cowards, scoundrels and traitors... - Alexandra says this with such irreconcilable confidence that I understand that no words will convince her otherwise. Is it just actions...
Are you really worried about the question of how to “promote” a man for money? Surprising! But we will not condemn you, since we are all not without sin.
Look…
We give you advice that can make you richer!
- Persuade a man to go to the supermarket with you
Walk with him around the “shop” territory. Buy everything for yourself with your savings, subtly hinting that you are still a little short of your dream.
- Adjust the situation
Write a list of things you need. Throw it somewhere in the “side” of the man. He will read it, hide it and buy everything that is indicated in it. We hope this option suits you? If not, sell everything that he buys you, and hold in your hands those finances that you were so eager to “promote.”
- Tell your loved one that you lost both your wallet and credit card.
Say that you don’t have a penny or a ruble left in your soul, that you feel insecure without them. The man will definitely give you some money.
- Take his card or his wallet
Jokingly ask about the PIN code. Ask if you can “use” his funds. A man, of course, will not refuse if he doesn’t turn out to be a cheapskate.
- Promise that you will give your sweetheart the full amount when possible.
Mention about percentages (to be sure and for the sake of reliability). A man won't ask you for money because he treats you great. It’s ugly to do this, but this option is one of the extreme ones.
- Give him a wonderful and romantic evening
Come up with something unusual and original yourself. Put all your imagination into planning the event! A man should be impressed by everything you do for him. Down to the smallest detail!
- Spend a crazy night with him
She must be so magical that he will shower you with compliments. One condition: do not perceive his “money gesture” in an immoral “image”.
- Give him invaluable help!
Do something good that will not be forgotten! He will decide to thank you, but will ask you not to be offended. And don’t even think about insults! Concentrate all your thoughts on the long-awaited shopping!
- Ask (in a playful way) for money for a new skirt or a new T-shirt
You can show what sexy things you chose. Then you won’t have to “unwind” for a long time!
- Hint (remind) your loved one about some important day or holiday
He himself will come to his senses and say: “Oh, my love, you need money for preparation!” You shyly lower your eyes and smile at him flirtatiously (with gratitude).
- Give him alcoholic drinks (lightly)
Bring up the topic of money (carefully). He will definitely tell you where they are. And he will also definitely give “full” consent for you to take the amount you need.
- Give him a memento or a nice gift
You'll see how the man behaves after this. Just be sure to please those given!
- Message on social networks in private
He will read, smile and “spin” his finances. Remember that asking a man for money is not at all shameful!
Start the conversation like this:“My friend’s boyfriend bought a fur coat for five hundred bucks! And I would definitely like the same one for myself.” The man will think about it and decide to buy it so that he can be the best for you.
Never date a man just for the money!
Earn them yourself! Prove and show your man that you are good not only in bed. He will be proud of you and will tell everyone how super amazing you are!
The time when a man can be quickly promoted with gifts and money
There are times when a man is especially generous with money:
Payday
Why not be generous on a day like this? They are ready to buy everything that their companion asks. He will buy even more to make pleasant surprises.
Holidays
Men remember their birthday or another (any) big holiday. It’s a shame not to “fork out” on days like these! You need to show that he is a real man!
If a man is in a good mood
The girl (woman) gave him a lot of compliments. Men also like beautiful words, “seasoned” with sincerity.
The woman became special to him
He decided to “reward” her in full.
Remember that men– these are not chests with money and jewelry!
They also need care, they also dream of warmth and affection..... Men are people too. Only of the other sex, the opposite!
A man himself will “get money” if he is patient and waits. And if he is a miser, then you shouldn’t stay with him for long!
A man himself understands how important money is for a woman (for cosmetics, clothes, jewelry, hygiene products).
A story from life about one promoted man
As a snack, we’ll tell you a little story...
One girl (named Lucy) very competently “promoted” her beloved man with money. She stopped getting her nails done and wearing the things he loved so much. The aroma of perfume that was so familiar to the man also disappeared. After some time, he suspected something was wrong. He asked what happened and where such changes came from. At that moment, Lyuska explained what was what and why. Since then, the man gave her pocket money every month. Sometimes and more often, when there was a part-time job and a good profit.
How to cheat a man out of money? Let us not touch on the ethical and moral side of this issue. In the end, men are not always highly ethical and deeply moral towards us either. And we are gentle creatures, weak and defenseless. We often consider a man’s willingness to spend a certain amount (albeit small) on us as proof of love. True, there is another category of gentle and weak among us who, by swindling a man for money, are trying to solve their financial problems or are simply playing a gambling and profitable game.
In a word, whatever the purpose of such a financial attack, if successful, the lady hits the jackpot - either confirmation of her own irresistibility, or complete moral and material satisfaction. And yet, how to promote a man with money (or gifts) beautifully, gracefully and tastefully?
It costs a lot to seduce a man beautifully: it will require a lot of strength, certain skills and talents from us. For some reason, our already stingy men today have become even stingier. And where is the vaunted breadth of soul? Gentlemen, Don Juans, heartthrobs, what did you decide to save on? On women? And women, offended by such an attitude, went on the warpath: if you don’t want to pamper us yourself, then we will learn to deceive men.
Goals and objectives
The end, as we know, justifies the means. Therefore, a correctly formulated goal will always find justification in reasons. For what reason are you going out hunting? In general, all the reasons that motivate women to steal money can be reduced to the following points:
- The lady has a very difficult financial situation.
- A woman simply seeks to attract attention.
- The lady is obsessed with a sense of revenge for her unsuccessful personal life.
- Awareness of one's own superiority over men.
- The desire to assert oneself and prove to oneself that a woman can do anything.
These are perhaps the most significant points that make ladies empty men's wallets. And every self-respecting lady has her own secrets. Moreover, almost every woman has these secrets, regardless of her status: wife, mistress, kept woman, girlfriend.
Starting position
The question of how to cheat men out of money should be approached, first of all, creatively. Perhaps the first golden rule should be the presence of self-esteem. You shouldn’t beg, you shouldn’t complain about a meager salary (scholarship), an ungrateful state, or your own failed life. If you want to deceive men for money, then you should forget about self-pity (in any case, do not try to evoke this pity).
A man, of course, will have compassion and regret, but such a situation is more than beneficial for him. Agree that satisfying the needs of a poor student or a low-income government employee is much easier than winning the attention of a wealthy lady. Therefore, a woman should look independent and successful. This is the only way to successfully breed men. The gentleman must understand once and for all that the lady of his heart does not need small handouts: only larger and more valuable things will help him achieve what he wants.
Another rule: if you love to ride, you also love to carry a sled. So be prepared for the fact that a man will not fork out money just like that. Just don’t immediately talk about the lack of principles and, especially, about the corruption of women. This is how the world works: if you want to take, know how to give. And your task is to convince the man that there will definitely be a return. Even if not now and not this minute, but it will definitely happen. As the poet said: “The hopes of young men are nourished.” Believe me, not only young men have hopes. To reassure a mature man means to force him by all means (and above all financial) to try to bring the “moment of reckoning” closer.
And the third rule is keep your ears open. We are not the only ones who are so smart and learn how to promote a man. Men also love (and know how) to flex. It’s not for nothing that all sorts of schools, courses and societies of pick-up artists (seducers) are being created. So it is possible that in your hunt you will be the prey, not him. Therefore, do not be lazy and ask what exactly they are taught in such schools. And then you can go into battle, which must be fought according to your own rules.
Preparing the battlefield
How to breed a man “naturally”? Intrigue and make a man pursue you. The male passion of a hunter will force him to fork out money even in the process of courtship, and on the way to his cherished goal, men do not skimp. After all, they are sure that they are doing this for themselves, and not for the woman.
When thinking about how to deceive a man, remember: very wealthy and wealthy men are sincerely confident that beautiful women want to meet them only for money. Of course (let's not lie), in fact, this is the case, but they don't need to know about it. True, because of their wealth, some men simply go crazy, considering themselves an unappreciated treasure, the navel of the Earth and downright utter happiness, which they also have to run after. Well, let them think so.
It is useless to convince such fools (well, what else can you call such specimens?) Your task is to strengthen him in these thoughts and awaken in him the desire to make you happy. Or it is necessary to provoke the moneybag to constantly strive to prove his worth.
How? First of all, when going hunting, be fully armed. Get ready to first invest in creating your own image of a wealthy and unapproachable beauty. An impeccable appearance, “traces” of visiting expensive beauty salons, branded accessories should become your weapon in this hunt.
By the way, the Pygmalion complex lives and flourishes in some men: they are simply looking everywhere for “material” to create their Galatea. Therefore, the exact opposite image of a simpleton (with inclinations!) will also help to hook the moneybag, who imagines himself to be an educator and connoisseur of beauty. True, it is almost impossible to recognize when and which particular image will “work”. So you can only rely on your intuition.
Rules of engagement
At the first stage of the hunt, you need to set up snares and traps. The main trap is a man’s belief that you don’t need his money. If you are hunting in the image of a chic vamp, then let him know that you already have everything, and what you lack, you will get without his help. If you have tried on the image of a charming simpleton, then the man must be sure that you simply do not need “extra” and you are quite happy with what you have. Only self-confidence (whether you are poor or rich) will help you promote a man with money.
Naturally, this will not continue all the time (our goals are not the same!). Accordingly, we smoothly move on to the second stage - “shaking out the wallet.” Now that he is convinced that you are completely independent and self-sufficient, and at the same time you are wonderfully good and necessary to him like air, let the man understand that the time spent on him needs to be compensated. Moreover, demand compensation in monetary terms. And don't be shy about asking for money. But under no circumstances be too pushy or impatient. Try to find a middle ground and accurately guess the moment when your request will be perceived as something natural and taken for granted.
Another rule of luring is a sense of proportion. A man should not see you as a predator, obsessed with the desire to gut his wallet. Raise the bar gradually, getting him used to spending money on you. Don't be capricious, or rather, be capricious in moderation. Being too assertive will only scare your man away. Therefore, if he is ready to buy you new boots, do not insist on the need to buy a fur coat to go with them. Fur coat - a little later.
Techniques of “divorce”
The issue of scamming men out of money is very relevant. Judging by women's forums, ladies and girls of all ages willingly share their own experiences. Here are some practical tips from girls who quickly managed to scam a guy out of money:
- It is better to hold off on going to an expensive boutique in order to buy something expensive there. At first, choose only those things that you can afford. This is the surest way to scam men out of money.
- The most important thing about how to scam men out of money is not to put pressure on him. In the store, pay for yourself, even if he insists. This way, your boyfriend will also be grateful that you agreed to take money from him.
- When you master the subtle science of how to deceive men with money, you should be patient. If you liked something in a shopping center that you obviously can’t afford, then you shouldn’t immediately start begging. Just look at the thing for a very long time, try it on, sigh over it and ask the seller a million questions. After that, leave without buying anything. And when the guy asks why you didn’t buy it, answer that you’re used to spending large sums only on useful and practical things. After this, the new thing will definitely be yours.
- In a restaurant, after the waiter puts the bill in the middle, be the first to take it and be prepared to pay it in full. Strong men love self-sufficient and independent women, so your zeal will be appreciated. However, the man does not tolerate female domination and will definitely insist that he must pay the bill.
- To properly deceive a man, you should show him that you are not so easy to achieve. If he invites you to come visit him for coffee (ha! as if you haven’t drunk enough already) or offers to show you his collection of butterflies, then it’s better to politely refuse. Make it clear that you, young and beautiful, are too much for him and to get you, he will have to try and... fork out big. This is perhaps one of the most important points in the question of how to cheat a guy out of money.
Enemy Weapon
Dear women! Don’t be naive and don’t think that you are surrounded entirely by fools and suckers. There are also many hunters among men. And do you know what main weapon they use? Pressure on pity, on the ability to sympathize, on decency, in the end. Therefore, if suddenly after dinner at a restaurant a man is surprised to discover that he “forgot his money at home,” this should alert you. And if the next time he suddenly gets a “stomach grip” and he urgently demands that you immediately buy a fast-acting medicine, this is another bell.
Or, passing by a cinema, he reads the poster and says that this film reminds him so much of your relationship and awakens such warm or passionate feelings that you need to watch it immediately, but bad luck, there’s not enough money for tickets... And you, touched, go buy tickets. What do you think? It simply accustoms you to the idea that paying for it is normal, and there is nothing wrong with such a situation. By the way, the “rule of three payments” is one of the favorite techniques of pick-up artists. Don't give in to provocations. And if you go hunting, then this is clearly not your prey. Run away from such men and quickly!
Conclusion
And finally. Advice on how to seduce men only works on normal men who really need a woman, who always get what they need. Such a man will simply wait and receive it later, making a note “here we will have to dig up longer.” But the insolvent specimens only theorize about female dynamos, and they themselves try to profit at our expense.
And about the moral side (after all, we started talking about it). On the same forums, the same women and men tirelessly argue on this topic. Men persistently call such women corrupt, and ladies... Ladies say a lot of things in their own defense. For example: “Oh, “dissolve!” This is not because there is not enough money, it’s just like a balm for the soul - gifts... Every woman has her own quirks, that’s all.” So, dear hunters, choose worthy prey. Good luck in the hunt and good catch!
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The victim sits and waits for some wizard to appear who will wave his wand and solve all her problems. Fraudsters are ready to promise and tell the victim everything that she wants to hear. Then comes the condition: “Give me this so that I can give what you want.” The victim must first give in order to receive. But the scammers demand something that the victim does not mind giving, since what he expects to receive is much more, better, and more expensive.
The principle is simple: while a person wants to get everything at once, he is deceived and deceived. While you are inactive, but think that other people will help you solve your problems, you will come across only scammers and manipulators in your life.
How to cheat a man out of money?
Let's move on to other ways to scam a man out of money. They are different only because men themselves react differently to each method. Try it and see which method is most effective in your particular case:
- Talk about your money problems. Here, in the literal sense of the word, you need to cry, pretend to be pitiful, become the most unhappy person and talk about your financial problems. If your tears can put pressure on a man, then you will get money. However, be careful, some men react by running away from such conversations. If you don’t get money by whining, then you need to ask for money without tears.
- Show your dependence, but not on money, but on a man. Ask him for money, but show that you are grateful not to the money, but to the man. Perhaps many men would like to feel not only needed, but also in charge in a relationship. If you talk to a man in such a way that he feels his power over you when he gives you money, then you will definitely receive it.
- Ask for money when the man is busy and has no time for such conversations. To get you away from him, he will quickly wave his hand and give you money. If you ask for money and a man says “let’s do it later,” then tell him that he can give you money and you won’t bother him. Give him a solution to the problem of how he can get rid of you quickly. At the same time, never ask a man for money when he is sick, hungry, tired, or upset. If you ask in such situations, he may think that you are only with him for the money.
- Ask for money rarely at first, and then often. At first, many men want to know that women love them, not money. Nobody wants to be used. Therefore, at the beginning of a relationship, you will have to moderate your ardor. Be modest, do not ask a man for money at all, even if he has it. Let him decide how to use them, and you will make him fall in love with you with your modesty. After time, when he has already made you your woman or even your wife, then you will be able to afford more. Start by asking for small things first, so that spending money is insignificant, and then move on to large purchases.
Do not consider men to be obligated, obligated, stupid and narrow-minded. Believe me, if a man knows how to make money, he will definitely recognize when they start to cheat him out of money. Therefore, always know when to stop - this will save you from the title of “mercantile woman”.
Every man wants to take care of his woman. However, some ladies go too far, which is why men begin to hide their money or set strict conditions for their sharing. In order not to encounter a man’s cruelty or greed, you need not only to ask him for money, but also to love, to be beautiful, accessible and understanding to him. In other words, don't forget that you are not dating a man for his money, but because you love him or want him. Know that if a man sees that you are with him out of love or respect, he will be more generous than in a situation where he thinks that you are only interested in money.
What other techniques will help in getting money from a man?
- Always thank a man for his generosity. Sometimes it doesn't matter how much money he spent on you. Show him that you are truly grateful and don't take his spending for granted.
- If you ask and are refused, do not be offended. Perhaps the man is testing you. Perhaps he simply does not have the money you are asking about. In other words, we come back to the point where you must show that you are not dating a man for his money, but for him. You love him. Refused to give you money? So what, you're not offended. Believe me, the man will feel guilty and still give you money, if not now, then next time.
- Show that the man is spending money on you, which will benefit him. In other words, you spend money on beauty salons or clothes to be beautiful for him. You buy things that make you happy, and accordingly, you share your joy with him. If a man understands that he will receive “dividends” from his generosity, it will be easier for him to spend.
Bottom line
At the same time, it is worth understanding one more idea: there are simply greedy men, and no matter what you do, do not promote them with money. They may be rich, have enough money, but all this will not save them from greed. Such men will refuse to give you money, get annoyed every time you need financial help, convince you that money and gifts are not the main thing, every time ask about what his money went for, share with you expenses and just spend money only on yourself.
Such people don't change. The reasons for their greed lie not so much in you, but in those women, situations or even mothers when their work and money were taken away. There is no way to eliminate greed. Therefore, immediately make a decision whether to be with such men or look for more generous gentlemen.