What do men think about during... What do men think about during sex? He thinks about a woman

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Interested in many women after intimacy.

It's no secret that a man's thinking is often driven by his sexual instincts, but believe it or not, during sex their brain works almost as hard as it does between their legs. But this does not mean that he thinks about how you look in bed and how interesting you are to each other. Finding out what men think about during sex will help you know if you should be concerned.

What thoughts do men have during sex?

During sex, men may have different thoughts, and this will certainly affect both the quality of intimacy and orgasm. Premature ejaculation is an indicator of this.

Constantly worrying about this is a very big problem for most men, especially young ones. That is why almost every one of them comes up with various methods for distracting himself from excitement, for example, memorizing football statistics, watching the TV on, he can even repeat the multiplication table to himself. Unfortunately, the more a young man wants a girl, the more likely it is that the climax will come too soon.

As you know, a man loves with his eyes. To avoid premature ejaculation, he avoids eye contact during sex. If a man sees that the woman he loves looks very sexy, then this is already enough for quick ejaculation.

To avoid such moments, spend more time on foreplay; it will help smooth out a man’s excessive sexual fervor.

Some “bad boys” don’t care about their partner’s satisfaction in bed, which they make clear to their woman. But this only confirms their sexual problems. Such men subconsciously set themselves to turn off emotions, citing indifference to the woman. This is a kind of way to “hold your horses.”

A man thinks about others during sex

Other women, or rather pictures, help some men with sex. Even when you're having sex that makes you feel sexy, it can feel like there's someone else in bed: a celebrity like Angelina Jolie or a waitress from the local cafeteria. This does not mean that he has lost desire or has stopped loving you. But sometimes he wants variety, even if he has made a choice in favor of monogamy.

Even for the most harmonious couple, sex becomes monotonous. This is how men rely on memories of sexual objects, and during sex he can remember the love of his 10-15 years ago. The main thing is not to say her name at the most crucial moment. That is why some of them call all their bed partners “bunnies”, “babies”, “pussies”. Men use this technique if they are not in the mood.

Typically, men who are married are not able to have sex with other women. So they try to compensate for lost opportunities and imagine themselves making love to the girl they really want.

Perhaps women also imagine themselves making love to Brad Pitt... but that's a completely different story.


Girls, hold on tight))) If suddenly you are lucky enough to find yourself in bed with one of those few men who don’t start snoring sweetly even before you finish the phrase: “Honey, it was a miracle...”, then isn’t it interesting Would it be possible to find out what kind of thoughts are wandering in his head if he still does not sleep?
Of course, this instant falling asleep is annoying. You haven’t even caught your breath yet, and he’s already asleep. The serene appearance of the sleeping hero evokes a strong desire to push him out of bed immediately. He's sleeping, and you're counting sheep - that's all love is?


Not at all. It's just that his emotions are like the flight of a swing - a sharp rise and immediately a rapid fall. And scientists have found an explanation for the fact that men fall asleep as soon as the “process” is completed. It turns out that sex and sleep are inextricably linked, and your man is simply exhausted by the act of love.
Judge for yourself: 85% of the men we surveyed admitted that they were very tired after a stormy sex scene and wanted only one thing - to fall asleep as quickly as possible. And only 15% do not fall asleep instantly.
These 15% of the “steadfast tin soldiers” told us what thoughts and dreams come to their minds when their beloved falls asleep.

If you have been married for a long time:
“She’s good, my Lenka. So funny. She sleeps like a girl and smiles in her sleep. If he smiles, it means there was an orgasm. Or two?.. Ten years together, and I still haven’t learned to distinguish the real from the fake.”

“Will Seryoga deceive with this new office or not? If he doesn’t deceive you, then you can change the car. And he’s been asking to buy her a fur coat for a long time. And make repairs. No, it probably won’t be enough for repairs... And probably not enough for a fur coat either. Maybe, well, this car? When was the last time I gave her a meaningful gift? And, just recently, when she decided to lose weight. I bought her an Arabic dance costume and a set of carrot graters! German, by the way. It's good that I remembered. Then we change the car. Everything in our office has already been changed, even the secretary Lilechka. I’m the only one who drives an old one like a sucker.”
“I wonder if she cheated on me during these ten years? And how many times? One can only guess. Yesterday she again remembered about that anorexic woman from the accounting department... Although there was nothing there. Almost. And in response to the mother-in-law’s fair argument that every man should become familiar with the anatomy of a mop at least once in his life, she burst into tears. Stupid. The only time my mother-in-law said something smart.”

“And what an eagle I was when we first started dating! We didn’t miss a single dark corner! And that incident late at night in Central Park, when a pack of friendly mongrels surrounded us and watched with interest what was happening. And she whined sympathetically in time with Lenka’s moans! Since then she doesn't like dogs. She says she is ashamed."

“Oh, a new mole on the butt... Or have I already seen it somewhere? Where? And on whom? Ritka’s is not like that, she looks like Svetkina...”

“Maybe I should try Viagra once? Don’t tell her - let her be surprised.”

“If only our team would reach the finals!”

If you are newly married:

“I am the happiest man on earth. Nothing more is needed, as long as everything remains as it is. So that she can breathe next to you.”

“I rolled her... She’s sleeping. But now I’ll take a little break, and we’ll repeat. Then he’ll sleep it off.”

“How can I explain to her more politely that my penis is not a gear lever, and if she wants to drive more, she should handle it more carefully. And her teeth... she needs to put her teeth somewhere...".

“Spot G... Should I really devote the rest of my life to searching for it? But it’s like Atlantis - no one has seen it, but there are legends. Although today my girl was shaking more than usual, so we don’t lose hope!”

“What tasty things do we have left in the refrigerator?”

“What if I stand quietly and go through that level quickly? I just realized where the artifact was hidden...”

If he's your lover:

“She seems to have a good time with me too.”

“I wonder if the car in her yard isn’t being “removed”? Why didn’t I put the car under the window?”

“I’m thirsty. And smoke. I wonder if she has someone else? Maybe I should get into my phone?”

“Does she need to say something, perhaps? And my head is empty. Shouldn't you really say "thank you"? If I say that I love you, then what, will I have to get married?!”

“How charmingly she covers her nose with her palm... Should I throw the kitten out from under the blanket or let her fiddle around? Warm...".

“In the morning we need to do it one more time and not be late for the office.”

“Or maybe we should get married already?”

If he is your lover but is married:

“Hmm... but I have nowhere to go! There she is, sleeping, I chased her. Should we go home now or lie down for a while?”

“Did I turn off my phone?”

“It’s good that my mother-in-law has mine. Three more free days..."

“Is that why she never asks me to put on a condom and doesn’t get pregnant? But mine can’t do that, everything twitches: “Are you wearing an elastic band?”

“Oh, we met late, my dear...”

“Don’t forget to take a shower, my wife will sniff at you again at home.”

“How many more days do I have until the end of my business trip? Don't get confused."

“I'm hungry. And she’s a decent cook, by the way.”

If you are an accident in his life:

“Well, it’s quite wow, but Tanka is still better.”

“Finally she is silent... You can relax.”

“And the girl has cellulite...”

“Does she really hope that I will get married? What a fool..."

“God, and I spent an evening and five thousand on THIS?”

“What’s her name?”

“Will I really have to change my number? After all, he will get enough of the calls! We need to include her number in the “black” list.”

“We need to go eat, sleep for a couple of hours and drive before she wakes up.”

To be fair, we note that very often the thoughts of “unsleep” women are not much different from men’s - adjusted for a manicure, a new haircut and a new dress, of course. But if you wake up and he’s still there, and his hand is on your hip, and the blanket is carefully tucked in, everything is fine. He was thinking the right thoughts.

From conversations with men who turn to psychotherapists specifically about sex, experts concluded that the partner thinks about the woman during sexual intercourse. True, not always about the partner.

If a woman, if he cares about their relationship, during sex he thinks about how to please his partner. The representative of the stronger sex does not close his eyes at this time - firstly, he enjoys the view, and secondly, he tries to grasp what the woman is feeling at this time.

Sometimes, if a man wants to prolong sexual intercourse or “wait” for his partner, he may think about other things to distract himself. So if you notice that your partner has a slightly blank stare during sex, don't panic.

Often a man during sexual intercourse, just like a woman in this situation, is concerned about how he looks at that moment. That is why the insecure part of the strong half of humanity prefers the knee-elbow position. This way, the woman does not see any flaws in the man’s figure, and the partner can observe a picture that stimulates him.

But, according to psychologists, most often a man does not think about anything during sexual intercourse. It turns out that the most natural state of male consciousness at this moment is the absence of any thoughts. Physical sensations during sex completely occupy the partner, so he has no need to think at this time.

What pictures help a man with sex?

If the couple has been together for a long time and the passion has subsided, the man may need additional stimulation not only of the erogenous zones, but also of his fantasy. A woman should not be upset if her partner asks to bring something new into their sex life. This only means that her man is thinking about maintaining the relationship.

In order for a long-time partner to think about the right things during sex and not be distracted by extraneous thoughts, there is no need to completely turn out the lights and should pay attention to your erotic outfit. Do not forget about the truth that a man loves with his eyes.

A lamp with a thick pink or red lampshade gives a woman’s body seductive, appetizing shades, and lingerie from a sex shop can instantly direct a partner’s thoughts in the right direction. There is no shame in asking a man what fantasies he has during sex; this will help you awaken your passion. If you think about your loved one constantly and work on your relationship, then he will also take care of you during sex.

Let's take a break from planning and talk about pleasant things, about sex! They say that during sex a man's head does not work. Turns out,
how it works!---

Thoughts of a man 17+

Sex. It seems like something nice. Tighten up. Remember everything that
you know about it.

Yes. Yes! Me and her. Bed.
My God! Are we without clothes?! Christmas trees! Here. Here! And... She doesn't mind! What? Just like this?
Crap! Is this really what happens? So where? Damn, I should have learned
biology in eighth grade! Oh! What is she doing? A! That is, here? AND?
It seems like it’s already... What to do? She says something... What? Move away? And now
back? Wow! Wow! Oh! No! Bl...innn... She seems unhappy... Mom's bedspread!
How sticky it is! Where? How? Shower! What? Do I love children? I am a man. I am a man!!! Well, that's it!---

Thoughts of a man 20+.

Lapse of memory. Where I am? About what? Who? Army? Women? Yes! Their
a lot of! I'm beautiful! Damn, I'm sexy and attractive! Otherwise, no! No? Not
Today? For God's sake! There are many of you - I
one! Sex! Everywhere. Always. Even if I don’t really know how to do anything. Quality -
quantity!!! No, it doesn’t bother me that we’ve known each other for two hours. Condom? Well,
you can... But it’s not the same feeling! Yes, I have. Well, screw him! Yes, of course I love it!
What? No, my friend won't be offended. No, we'll wash the sheets later. Who? My girlfriend?
What a Girl? Durra! It's good that there are no problems with erections. Come here. Fine.
So... Who's next in line? I love you, life! More! Let's! Thank you I
today already... However...Why not? What wedding? So goodbye! Forget!
Happiness! (Mobile phones don’t exist yet! Happiness!) How simple it all turns out!
I just have to say it! That's all! And now she’s already under me! This is my how-know! Who would have known!

Thoughts of a man 30+.

Another failure. Wife. Wife? A permanent partner is good!
How? How can I tell her? I want it like this! What if she doesn't like it? Come on? A
let's try again? Well? Well, how? No? Doesn't touch? At all? Head again? Crap! That's why I got married, right?
Want! Really want to! Spermotoxicosis! Yes! Yes! Like this! We can whenever we want! Ouch!
Want more! We’ve been married for so many years, but I can’t say... Why? Fool! Oops...
You have to leave it out like that... she didn’t say anything special... Here. Get it. Orgasm through
once for the third time... Ah... I’m super-duper... like...

What? What was it? Which one? It always stood! Come on! Well,
try... Well? Here... Here, it seems... It seems like she’s feeling good already? Yes? Or not yet? No? I
I'm trying! Exactly. Here! That's it! You can relax. Wow! It is something
new... Not bad. And this is how I like it! Can you do that too? Why was I silent?
Fifteen years? Idiot!

Idiot. It was necessary to remain silent further. No, no, everything is fine... who am I kidding... Yes, of course. Yes,
darling. I will try very hard. May you feel good. Well... I, of course,
too... Sex? What is this? Something familiar... Ah! I remembered! Of course, if that's it, oh
than I think...

Lyrical conclusions.

You ask, where is the love? Let's not pretend, sex
is not always a consequence of love. And, honestly, far away
Not all of us “while” remember about love. Yes, undeniably, love is like
an element of relationships, a pleasant, but not at all necessary condition for sex.
Alas, I may disappoint my readers, but men think about
anything but love. It could be passion, lust, desire, fear
not giving pleasure to your partner, or not getting pleasure yourself, fear
being caught by the wife or the girl's parents, phobia of lack of erection... Yes,
you never know what else...

Do not worry! Sex occupies only a small part of our lives
a lot of time! Although thoughts, dreams and fantasies about him haunt us 24 hours a day
day, without leaving even in a dream. But there will always be a place for love. So
have sex, love each other, and don't try to guess what he's thinking
your partner lying on/under you. Who cares? The main thing is that what you are
you were doing it, you liked it. Both.

A question that many women would like to know the answer to. You look into his eyes during and after, but you still can’t understand what’s in his head now. His neck is already falling off, his hands don’t obey, and this macho guy has his head up against the ceiling and isn’t even breathing.
Here's what men say about their thoughts during blowjob:

I don't think about anything, I enjoy it

The ceiling needs to be whitewashed

Sometimes I get so dizzy during this process that all my thoughts fly away somewhere.

No thoughts, only feelings, pleasure and pleasure.

It's time to change the car, it's too cramped

Lord, my girl. Why didn't I meet you 10 years ago. Just don't stop.

Yes, not a fountain,......I didn’t take a bite and thank you. Happiness is not in a blowjob

A huge wave of gratitude arises inside me that cannot be expressed in words.

If you don’t like it, then I think about how to set you on the right path, or how to gently ask him to stop.

To come up with something more interesting and implement it with her

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Oh, fly, I wonder how it walks on the ceiling with such small legs?

Just don't take a bite...

Teeth, teeth, well, who does that, what a paragraph.

And the neighbor on the fifth floor does it better.

What big eyes she has!...

I look at my dick and her face! It looks very depraved - lips, eyes, cute face, such a contrast. I think about how she does it.

If only she didn't have a cramp...

Oh, damn, now I’m going to cum and I’ll have to do the same to her.

I wonder if it’s because of that blouse that I didn’t buy her at the store yesterday.

I’m thinking about how to finish quickly so that she doesn’t feel offended that she doesn’t know how to do a damn thing.

I think about my beloved

I often think about what she should do differently to make me feel good. Probably because I don’t experience great pleasure from oral sex.

One of my friends knew how I felt about the drum. She herself came during the blowjob. More violently than during sexual intercourse.

Hurry up, a friend is waiting

Why does it compress so much or very slowly or very quickly?

So, what should I do to her now?

Where did she learn how to s..t?

No one has ever done this well for me.

I’m thinking about how to prolong the pleasure and not finish quickly, but my fantasies are absolutely varied.

I like it when my beloved raises her eyes and looks at me during a blowjob. Then I stop thinking.

Most often I think about another woman. Although I constantly think about how to deceive her and end this whole thing in her mouth.

For some reason I remember sausages that burst when you cook them for a long time.

And it just infuriates me that my girlfriend is constantly waiting for some kind of reaction from me, instructions on what to do, how to make it so that I like it. I think that I would have given myself a much better blowjob (if I could have reached it). And so... WELL IT’S IMPOSSIBLE TO RELAX!!!

I told her a long time ago, there is the Internet, there are “manuals on blowjobs,” take them, read them, and then practice on me all day long.

It feels like my astral body hangs a meter above my physical body and enjoys the magnificent porn that opens up to its gaze. I no longer think with my brain. All the heat of my body gradually flows from my arms and legs to my stomach, and then BAAAAAAAAAATS - explosion. Like fireworks. Festive fireworks. There is joy and pleasure in my head, but there are still no thoughts. But when I saw the surprised but happy face of my baby, my head started working. The first thing she did was give a signal for hugging, kissing and expressing gratitude to the object of my love.

It all depends on my mood. The last time I thought about the fact that I wanted to eat, but the refrigerator was empty. And recently I started thinking about why no one came up with “auto-blow job.”

What if he takes a bite?...

And the ex did, of course, better...

I wonder if she did this to anyone before me? Who is this bastard?...

But she still loves me.

It gives! If he does that with his tongue now, I won’t be able to stand it!

Swallow or not swallow?

I can imagine that all this is now happening not in an apartment, but somewhere in a quiet forest or on the seashore.

Thinking about how to push deeper.

Sometimes I think - it would be nice if there were two of them!! Uhh...

About the car of course