The jealous cuckolded husband decided to take revenge on the homewrecker by staging a fight on the threshold of a coffee shop
Ksenia Sobchak, of course, is not Anna Karenina or Madame Bovary. But quite unexpectedly, she found herself in a classic plot as an unfaithful wife, over whom real battles happen.
Over the past six months, the Coffeemania chain has unconditionally become the main ring in Moscow. Either football players Kokorin and Mamaev break chairs and beat visitors, or 46-year-old Maxim Vitorgan breaks the nose of 43-year-old director Konstantin Bogomolov. Having heard this news, we decided to figure out on the spot how it all happened.
“Coffeemania Grand” on New Square is not the most tourist place; the price tag scares off any casual visitors. Mostly officials come here to take a break from government affairs with a cup of coffee, and our celebrities come here for idle conversations. Following the trail of the crime committed by a jealous husband, we arrived at the Grand Coffeemania, sat down at the far table, according to information from the waiters, the same one where director Konstantin Bogomolov rested after a hard day, and prepared to take notes.
The establishment, of course, is not very conducive to spending - a cup of cappuccino costs 450 rubles, a second course costs around a thousand. There weren’t very many people in the morning, unlike Monday evening, when the fight happened. After talking with the cafe employees, we drew up a picture of what happened.
Konstantin Bogomolov was very unlucky. As soon as he began to drink quietly, Maxim Vitorgan arrived at the cafe. Bogomolov came out to meet him. A short but furious altercation at the door, shouts and accusations, after which a hail of punches flew at the director. Vitorgan, as if frightened by his actions, turned around and went into the night (half an hour after the incident, he was already posting sausages and peas on his Instagram).
Bogomolov called an ambulance. He washed away the blood in the toilet, scaring the visitors, then, after talking with the doctors who arrived, he refused to go to the hospital, deciding to wait for his friends. The coffee shop employees recalled how the director said that he knew perfectly well who beat him, and that it happened because of a woman. And then he went home.
There are a lot of rumors surrounding the Sobchak-Vitorgan marriage. But, apparently, the discord in the family is really serious. Just three days ago, Vitorgan posted a photo of his parents on Instagram, Ksenia commented on it, and quite innocently: “How beautiful they are after all.”
Vitorgan was furious: “Still, yeah!” This little thing speaks volumes about the couple’s current relationship. Back in December, active rumors appeared that 37-year-old Ksenia had been having an affair with Bogomolov almost since the summer, and she no longer lived with her husband. Sobchak, indeed, began to appear in the world either alone (even at events declared as family events), or together with Konstantin, who had just divorced actress Daria Moroz.
And at the December premiere of the play “iFak” directed by Bogomolov, Ksenia and her husband were seated in different rooms - they say, at the request of the director himself.
During the New Year holidays, Sobchak and Vitorgan literally blew up social networks with controversial photographs and heartbreaking posts on the theme “do not judge, lest you be judged.” Vitorgan tried to deceive the public (later, of course, he said that this was subtle trolling) by posting a romantic photo with Ksyusha from five years ago.
He took off his wedding ring and put it on later. Bogomolov only added fuel to the fire by publishing messages on social networks from the series “I am sending energy, peace and my warmth far, far away to a loved one.” In general, the Internet community has long since completed the puzzle. Apparently, it also began to take shape for Vitorgan, who, instead of asking his wife for an explanation, decided to show himself. And not in the best light.
For now, everyone remains tensely silent. No statements about divorce have been received, although Sobchak is unlikely to endure such fuss around him for long - with fights, songs and tambourines. Only Konstantin Bogomolov spoke about what happened (the author’s spelling has been preserved):
- Dear and caring friends), an excellent doctor (thanks to Ira Apeksimova) put together my nose, which was broken in two places, and brought the displaced skull bones to a more or less decent state, and therefore the intracranial is normalized and I can present to you the incredible team of the play “Crime and Punishment” , which I will begin soon.”
Cheating on your wife is a very, very common thing. For any man, the fact of his wife’s leftist adventures is a very serious blow. A weak woman hurts a man to the very heart and leaves his children without a father. The World Wide Web is literally replete with advice on what a cuckolded husband should do and what he should do. Let's understand the situation, what modern propaganda of matriarchal society advises men who find themselves in a difficult situation.
I've read quite a few sources online. Information was collected both on women’s forums and on psychological help websites. The advice is the same everywhere - humble yourself, pacify your ridiculous pride and move on with your life with your wife. Now let's move on to the details.
Justification for betrayal
Years of matriarchal propaganda have taken their toll. Now female infidelity is no longer considered something supernatural or shameful. Resources explain in detail why female infidelity in the 21st century has ceased to be so significant. In ancient patriarchal times, a wife’s betrayal could result in pregnancy and a bastard could be born into the family, who, along with legitimate children, would eat, drink, need clothes, and then would claim an inheritance. Wastefulness in the Middle Ages is unacceptable. Therefore, the severity of morals at that time was justified, sources write.
Now the situation has changed, a woman can control the pregnancy process on her own, so there is no need to raise any bastards. And the old patriarchal strictures now make no sense. And all the suffering of cuckolded husbands on the topic of infidelity is just a pathetic atavism of that distant era.
And so, they explained to us and consoled us that we would not raise illegitimate children. Next, the propaganda moves on to justifying female infidelity. This is a very correct step, it’s not the crocodile’s fault that he ate the lamb - he just wanted to eat. And here the same thing happens: the woman is not at all to blame for her movements to the left. The fault lies entirely with the man.
What are the reasons for female infidelity? And the reasons are painfully familiar: you don’t pay attention to your wife, you don’t take her out into the world, you don’t give her romantic evenings and don’t give her gifts. Sound familiar? It’s very familiar, I don’t see the point in writing about this in more detail; on our website, all these reasons have already been discussed several times by the authors.
I want to stop at this point. Not a single resource has written that the reason a woman cheats is her sexual dissatisfaction. Does your husband perform his duties poorly? This is not a reason for a woman to have a lover. Oops! You noticed? No?! What do you mean, this is a super-mega-cool hook on which they hang a fresh cuckold carcass.
No man will ever come to terms with the fact that he cannot satisfy the woman with whom he lives. So if they tell the unfortunate person about this, no matter how much of a rag he is, divorce is inevitable. And this means that the lady will have to start looking for a new man who can take care of her and take upon himself the solution to all her problems.
Therefore, the mouthpiece of matriarchal propaganda screams with all its might that a wife commits adultery only because of a lack of attention, and not because of an itch in the front part. This approach makes it possible to make the woman infallible and an innocent victim due to the actions of her insensitive log husband. Well, the husband, having learned about the fact of betrayal, must plunge into the jungle of introspection and rush to correct his many mistakes. Cool? Yeah, I laughed too.
What to do
We have figured out who is to blame. Now the second question is what to do? Do you have any doubts? Do you have this question? You guys are just nerds, how dare you even think about him. After all, the answer is very obvious - try to save the family at any cost. This is exactly what a modern man who values marriage and children should do. For some reason, no one remembers that the wife did not value the children when she put her front end under another pin.
The advice on all resources is unequivocal - “Don’t cut your teeth, sit down to talk and figure out the situation.” Then there is clear advice - try to restore the relationship with your wife and start over with a clean slate, go with her to the sea coast or tropical islands and check if she still has feelings.
Well, what can we say, the alen factory is working at full capacity. And more and more often in life you can see examples when a husband forgave his wife after an affair and they lived happily ever after and no longer remember the past graters.
By the way, psychologists have an opinion, or rather this opinion is vigorously propagated by psychologists and other specialists. The postulate is very simple: a man can forgive betrayal, a woman can never. Well, you understand which way the wind blows. They work, so to speak, with an eye to the future.
On women's forums, well, where they talk about what a real man should be, forgiving rags receive a lot of praise and flattery from women. It seems like only a real man can understand and forgive a woman for her little weakness, and only a real man (read alen) will do everything to keep the woman and prevent the family from falling apart.
As we see, propaganda work is going on on all fronts: men are being educated by psychologists who justify female infidelity and provide evidence. Women are bombarded with forums that say that cheating in marriage is an ordinary event that is not even worth a serious scandal. And the hysterics of men on this topic are completely groundless.
The only way out
At all times, under any system, under any form of social organization, traitors have always been, are and will be the lowest layer of human society. No one has ever loved traitors. Neither those whom he betrayed, nor those for whom he betrayed. Why? The answer is simple, you can never rely on this riffraff again.
He who betrayed once will betray again. Therefore, the life path of any traitor always and at all times ended in a roadside ditch, where his body was gnawed by rats and worms because there was no one to even bury him. So it is in married life. There is no excuse for betrayal. If the fact has become known, then divorce is the only way to maintain peace of mind. It may hurt, but over time you will understand that you did the right thing.
Just yesterday we were talking here about cuckolds, arguing a lot, and now the topic has come up...
Personally, I think that discussing the dignity of cuckolds is something like life on Mars: maybe they have dignity, but no one has seen it yet... Let's immediately make a reservation that cuckolds are not those men who have been cheated on, but those who are proud of it. So what kind of dignity can we even talk about?! Thus, cuckolds are a special kind of man. And the wives of cuckolds are a special type of women, destined for cuckolds by fate itself. Moreover, from the first meeting they are drawn to each other like a beckoner. These are, as a rule, women - powerful, strong, who know what they want from life and who know how to achieve everything. And men are soft, kind, idealistic dreamers, uncommunicative and unsuccessful in their careers. By the way - don't laugh! - these are the strongest family unions according to statistics!
I bring to your attention the monologue of such a lady:
Enough, dear, cognac!
Why bother with the showdown?
I'll go straight to the shower, while you
Go close the curtains.
Love you!
And two others...
And those three from the market,
Also, it looks quiet...
With the passion of a jaguar...
One more Indian
Jew and Georgian,
And the blacks are also okay,
Not an image at all!
And here is a look at the horns from the side of the bearers themselves, so to speak:
Look for a fool...
I came home - my wife was in bed with someone else,
And I have branchy horns,
It won't be a classic duel...
They attacked the wrong... fool...
And how many ladies live without a man,
Agreeing for flowers and hops...
And I have a reason and a reason.
Did you want a duel? You will have a duel...
I will repay treason with treason,
I will crown you with horns...
Yes, in this World everything has a price
And so it’s more sinless to finish off the enemy...
Isn't it a pragmatic and cynical approach to his wife's betrayal? Now this betrayal becomes a subscription to his numerous infidelities, now he considers himself entitled to cheat on her for the rest of his life. But what about it? She deserved it!
In general, a “fun” family life!.. And, by the way, it is still unknown what is worse: he will now suffer all his life or have fun in this way. Although... everything is being treated now!
But much more often, the cuckold justifies his wife, blaming only himself for everything. Well, and, of course, the one with whom his wife cuckolded him.
And she, by the way, not only does not think about hiding, but is even proud of herself. But of course! She is so in demand, the sweetest, extraordinary and the only one! And he uses his power skillfully. And cuckolds believe.
And finally, here is a story that is indicative of how cheaters behave (usually they are “on horseback”, are satisfied with themselves and never regret anything) and cuckolds (they feel - paradoxically - guilt for what happened and revel in their suffering):
A 25-year-old Indian man has been living in a tree for nine months straight because of a grudge against his wife. A man refuses to come down to earth until his wife asks him for forgiveness for cheating.
Mumbai resident Sanjay caught his wife Tara in bed with another man. The husband, outraged by the woman's infidelity, did not pursue his lover with a baseball bat or slap his wife. Instead, he took Tara to their home village, where she had to publicly ask for forgiveness in front of all her relatives. When the wife refused to apologize and announced that she was leaving Sanjay, he climbed a tree (guava) and declared that he would sit there until he heard the cherished words.
This unique protest against female infidelity has been going on for nine months. At first, Sanjay ate all the fruits on the tree, and when this food ran out, he began to accept food packets from the ground that his mother gave him.
It is noteworthy that Tara returned to Mumbai to her lover a long time ago and has no plans to apologize to her husband.
Sanjay’s entire family unanimously persuaded Tara to ask for forgiveness from her husband and return to him, especially since at first Sanjay generally refused any food and ate only guava fruits. But the woman didn’t want to hear about it.
In the end, the abandoned husband had to swallow his own pride and agree to the food that his mother brought him.
The Indian climbed the tree on March 9. Sanjay stated that if anyone tries to force him down, he will throw himself down and commit suicide.
Sanjay eats, sleeps and even performs his natural functions at his best.
True, neighbors say that at night, when no one sees him, the young man still goes down to the ground to stretch his legs.
http://novonews.tvnet.lv/wo_men/dom_sjemja/217428-9_mjesjacjev_na_djerjevje_izmjena_suprugi_zagnala_muzhchinu_na_guavu
I would like to know your opinion about the unfortunate Sanjay. Maybe we can try to help him in some way with the whole site? For example, we will equip missionaries in Mumbai, provide him with humanitarian assistance, take his wife for re-education, or something else...
And in general, let's discuss this phenomenon, so to speak, in our region and on a global scale...
Union of Family Free Cuckolds.
Spring, spring, the snow has melted,
Internet quirks: Cuckold Union.
Life in the new 21st century has turned out to be full of problems, both public and personal. The birth rate is falling. Mortality is rising. Women give birth to few children, and men persuade them in helpless despair. Women demand increased financial support. Men grit their teeth and persistently look for new ways to solve the problem of increasing the fertility rate, as well as at the same time developing their personality and strengthening the family institution. Many men are looking for ways out of the crisis for the whole country in general and for themselves in particular. And some of them actually find new, fresh, completely unexpected solutions that really work to improve the situation. Let's give the floor to the founder of the USSR ( Union of Family Free Cuckolds) Mr. Roman Rogachev. Apparently fate itself gave Roman such a surname. However, let's not get ahead of ourselves and listen carefully to Roman himself. Yes, indeed, I, Roman Rogachev, am the author of the idea and the founder of the Cuckold Union. I understand that at first glance, all this looks like complete idiocy and bullshit, but I still ask you to listen to me carefully first. Who knows, maybe you will be imbued with new progressive ideas and also join the Union. How it all began. I worked quietly in a small company. So, they sold all sorts of small things. Year after year passed, each day was similar to the previous one. I gradually became somehow uneasy. Life seemed more and more empty and meaningless to me. I was married, but had no children. Job prospects also seemed unattractive to me. I felt like I needed to do something. Change something radically. Finally get down to real business. My own business, which would benefit society, and give me income and creative satisfaction. But what should I change? What specific thing to do? I didn’t know and didn’t even guess. One lucky incident helped me. One day, taking advantage of my boss’s absence, I left work an hour early. I come home, look into the bedroom, and am stunned. My boss is in bed with my wife! They doze slowly. I carefully went out into the street and ran to work. At my workplace I took a breath of relief: it’s gone! And then I almost got knocked up. Then I calmed down and tried to sort out my thoughts and experiences. At first I was very surprised. Well, I have to do this, but why does the boss need to take on my work? Strange. Usually, on the contrary, he tried to blame me for what he should do himself. And then I realized - this was exactly what I needed! Many people do not understand their happiness. Someone else in my place would have caused a scandal, punched his wife in the face, quarreled, or even fought with the boss. And what would this neurotic get as a result? I would have been thrown out of work and would have had a scandalous family life without any prospects. But I didn’t miss my happiness. I have become much better and more attentive to my wife and boss. And luck turned its face to me. I received a significant promotion and began to travel frequently on prestigious business trips with easy work and huge bonuses. My wife gave me my first child. And little cute horns grew on my head. That’s when it occurred to me to create the Union of Family Free Cuckolds, so that we, cuckolds, could communicate with each other, share successful experiences, and fight against those who do not understand the importance and national significance of our movement. Judge for yourself, our statistics show that members of our Union have three times more children than the national average. Raising young people in our spirit of cuckolding, teaching them the ability to enjoy growing horns on their heads will, without any doubt, lead to a quick and successful resolution of the demographic problem in the country as a whole. Think about this, dear teachers, teachers of family ethics and other family sciences. Think about what our men really need to be taught. Every self-respecting man wants to become a cuckold. Being a cuckold is prestigious, honorable, and is a kind of challenge to society. In fact, many men are cuckolds, but are somehow embarrassed to admit it even to themselves. Somehow they don’t believe their luck, they don’t understand how they managed to achieve such success. Everyone is firmly convinced that everyone has horns, but not him. And he hasn't earned them yet. Take, for example, you, dear reader. What do you mean, how do I know? I don’t know anything about you, I just assume that you have a healthy, strong body, a good, smart head, which means it’s quite possible that it’s already sprouting... Well, not horns, but cute little horns. Some statistics: 90% of wives have cuckolded their husbands at least once, the remaining 10% have also cuckolded their husbands, but won’t admit it to anyone, not even their best friend. All men are divided into two types of cuckolds - modest cuckolds and proud cuckolds. The hornless ones laugh at us and think we are fools. Another question is who is more foolish. We are convinced that the absence of horns is a shame for a real man. Some people understand this. “Doctor, doctor, what’s wrong with me, I’ve been married for three months and still don’t have horns...” The doctor carefully feels the head. “Don’t worry, patient. They are already growing little by little. I advise you to work more on the computer and pay less attention to your wife. The process will go much faster.” The patient returns home. I started to open the door with the keys, but it was on a chain. I called. There was a rustling sound, but no one opened the door. Then he started knocking on the door with his foot. A voice came from behind the door. Male. Rude and unhappy. Well, in general, fresh air, good nutrition, medicated shampoo, a little patience, a beautiful seductive wife - that’s all you need for greater human happiness and small beautiful horns. Our Cuckold Union is growing stronger and developing. More and more stags are joining our ranks. A new cuckold from France writes to us: I have carefully read the charter of the Union of Family Free Cuckolds, and I agree with everything. Yes, it's true, every man wants to wear horns. But the husband very rarely admits this. I am French, but I have a Russian wife. When I met her, she made no secret of the fact that it would be difficult for her to be faithful. I immediately dreamed of wearing big horns, but I waited until my wedding day to tell her. Sveta was so happy that she decided to go to the mayor’s office without panties under her dress. She was very pleased and promised to give me horns. I have been waiting for this happiness for a long, long time. Finally, 9 months after marriage, Sveta cuckolded me. I was very happy and proud. Then she went with strangers three more times, and twice I watched my wife get fucked. I was very pleased how she gave herself to them. Unfortunately, so far I only have small horns, but I hope that soon my wife will give me big and beautiful horns. However, Sveta says that all wives are unfaithful. She even adds that “cuckolding your husband is a natural process.” Besides, all her friends are also unfaithful. Being a cuckold is the greatest happiness of a husband. Unfortunately, I don't have enough such small horns. I don't feel completely satisfied. That's why I want my wife to make love to many men. I'm looking for articles that explain what a husband should do to encourage his wife to cheat on him frequently. Thank you for the advice on how to become a cuckold, and allow me to consider myself a member of the Union of Family Free Cuckolds. Certainly! Becoming a cuckold is very easy, you just have to really want it. However, many become without even wanting it. Yes, okay, what can I say, of course, all wives cheat, except yours, dear reader. On this pessimistic note, I say goodbye and wish everyone, well, you know what. Something you probably already have. Grandmaster Ostap Bender, with his characteristic subtle sense of humor, will give several new lectures for inexperienced chess players. Cuckolds, those who sympathize with them, those who despise them are invited, as well as everyone else. I once went with a friend to a casino. Roulette. I bet on 8, he bet on 11, and it came up, what do you think? If you want to visit Please remember this page - The address of this page: http://site/lit/hornsr.html
And husbands grow horns...
/Poetry/
Proud cuckolds are us, members of the Cuckold Union. We have something to be proud of. And we are very proud of our achievements.
And modest cuckolds are ostriches who hide their heads in the sand along with their horns, instead of proudly carrying them through life, strengthening and nurturing them.
Every humble cuckold believes that all wives cheat except his own wife. Let me emphasize, he thinks so every humble cuckold!
The patient calms down: “Well, thank God. Otherwise I thought there was not enough calcium.”
- You, goat, knock on your horns again!
The patient grabbed his head in amazement. And I felt it! They are growing little by little, long-awaited!
I'm also looking for articles that explain to a wife that she should definitely cuckold her husband.
The husband is bored of living without horns, and undoubtedly the wife is also bored of being faithful.
Union of Rogochi
later...
Despite all the efforts of the so-called “feminists” to eliminate any gender inequality, it is in principle impossible to do this. Impossible for the simple reason that a man cannot give birth. And probably never will be able to. You can’t avoid nature on a crooked goat!
Therefore, a man is able to distinguish his offspring if he is sure that his wife belongs only to him, and she has not had sexual intercourse with anyone else (and therefore has no opportunity to become pregnant). Such confidence is provided only by the institution of marriage, which was established in human society a long time ago, at least ten to fifteen thousand years ago.
Due to its antiquity, marriage in all societies was considered a sacred concept or close to it. Divorce, even if it was permitted, was difficult for both material and moral reasons. And in many societies, marriage is considered sanctified by God and therefore cannot be dissolved. For example, divorce among Catholics and Orthodox Christians is almost impossible. A significant part of Leo Tolstoy’s novel “Anna Karenina” is devoted to attempts to legally dissolve the Karenins’ marriage.
With such an almost religious reverence for marriage, violation of marital fidelity was considered a great crime. The main blame for betrayal was usually placed on the woman. For example, in biblical times she was expected to be stoned. Such an episode is described in the parable of Christ and the harlot (Gospel of John 8:2-11).
But even a stranger who violated someone else’s marriage could not be calm, neither for his property, nor even for his life. The husband's anger at the violator of the sanctity of marriage served as justification even for the murder of the latter. This is beautifully stated in the Proverbs of King Solomon.
“Whoever commits adultery with a woman has no understanding; he who does this destroys his soul: he will find beatings and shame, and his dishonor will not be erased, because jealousy is the rage of a husband, and he will not spare on the day of vengeance, will not accept any ransom and will not be satisfied, no matter how many gifts you multiply "(Proverbs 6:32-35)
In countries that strictly adhere to Islam even today, the punishment for adultery can be the death penalty for both adulterers.
Similar cruel rules were in use in Europe.
However, offended husbands did not always pursue the case of adultery. There were many reasons for this. First, the act of adultery had to be seriously proven. Secondly, the husband could not allow the matter to proceed out of elementary love or pity for his cheating wife in the hope that she would improve. Finally, even the most severe punishment of adulterers did not erase the shameful stain from the reputation of the offended spouse and did not rid him of the nickname “cuckold.”
A “cuckold” was a name for a man who was cheated on by his wife. The origin of this word is not clear enough. To be precise, a cuckold should be called not just a man to whom his wife cheated, but the one to whom, as a result of the betrayal, she gave birth. In this case, the victim of betrayal had to feed and raise someone else's child, just as birds hatch and feed cuckoo chicks. The English word for cuckolded husband, “cuckold,” alludes to the cuckoo.
In southern countries, such as Italy, the word “cuckold” (“cornuto”) is a very strong insult. The same is true for Spain and France. In France, the shameful position of a cuckold was aggravated almost until the 18th century by the existing right of the first night, according to which a lord could make the bride of any of his subjects happy by depriving her of her virginity on her wedding night. The action of P. Beaumarchais’s play “The Marriage of Figaro,” which Napoleon called “a revolution in action,” revolves around this wild custom.
As often happens, shameful and disgraceful things excite many people sexually. Among all sorts of male fetishists, there are those who, so to speak, try on their horns, imagining situations in which their spouse cheats on them with another man in front of their eyes. Of course, without any protection. Funny boys!
It’s no less fun to read in various women’s magazines and magazines that cuckolding your husband is a normal female response to an insult inflicted by your spouse. And even with a smile, various options for this sweet female revenge are described. I wonder how such advisers would react to the old Russian means of raising a wife, the whip? During the times of “Domostroy”, it was they who most often punished the lascivious wife, not wanting to take the dirt out of their hut for everyone to see.